Do you remember what you wanted to be when you grew up?
Maybe a fireman? A baker? A ballerina? Whether or not you still hold
those childhood dreams of twirling about in a pink tutu or rushing off
to extinguish a house fire, you probably have some sort of idea what you
ultimately want to do with your life. BUT are you actually doing it?
Are you working towards it? Or have you given up all hope on your dreams
with the burdens of daily life pulling you down?
Pursuing your dreams comes along with many benefits! Here are some reasons why you should not give up on your dreams:
1. Failure.
This
word seems counter-intuitive in reasons not to give up your dreams, but
failure is more beneficial than you might think. Most people don’t
pursue their dreams for fear of failure. Little do they know, this is
one of the biggest ways we learn and grow!
Many famous and successful Americans had to fail over and over again
to achieve what they hoped to in life. Abraham Lincoln failed at war,
as a businessman, as a lawyer and even at politics at first. He pushed
on through and became president of the United States. Thomas Edison’s
teachers called him “stupid” and he was fired multiple times before
“failing” 1000 times attempting to invent the lightbulb. Michael Jordan
was once cut from his high school basketball team. He later said,
“I’ve missed more than 9000 shots in my career.Advertising
I’ve lost almost 300 games
26 times I’ve been trusted to take the game winning shot … and missed.
I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. That is why I succeed.”
If
we can learn anything from these successful men, it would be to never
give up on our dreams simply because of fear of failure.
2. Persistence.
With
that failure comes persistence. Persistence is something that can only
be learned through hardships. If you never fall down, you can’t learn
how to get back up. Each time we pick ourselves back up and forge
through, we get a little bit stronger and more capable of achieving our
ultimate goals.
3. It’s better to try and fail than to wonder what might have been.
Have
you ever regretted trying something in your life? Perhaps it was trying
out for the school play. Or asking that special someone out on a date.
That feeling of wondering what could have been might still eat at you even years down the road.
How
do you avoid that feeling of regret? By trying. You don’t have to do
something huge, but sitting down and making a plan with small steps on
how you will achieve your dreams will start you off in the right
direction. Little by little you will forge a path towards your goals.
4. Successes along the way.
If
your dreams are big enough, you will have stepping stones of success
along the way. Small achievements that can be celebrated and reviled in.
These small victories can help push you through to the next goal and
soon enough, your dreams will be realized.
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5. The pursuit.
Many
valuable experiences are found in the pursuit. There is a reason the
pursuit of happiness is in the constitution. Memories, friendships,
skills, life lessons, love. Basically, life is what happens when we make
our way towards a goal. Applying for that college which seems out of
reach, we might meet our soulmate. In seeking for that promotion, we
might meet a best friend or mentor. Signing up for that team, we might
get to travel the world. In order to value the pursuit, we need to
follow our dreams!
6. Success is often just around the corner.
If
only you knew how close you were! If only you knew what an impact would
be for one more phone call, one more interview, and just one more late
night working on your passions. Often we give up far too soon. We can’t
see what the future holds for us, but we sure can keep striving towards
our dreams.
7. Setting an example.
Finally,
if you have children (or might have them some day), you will be setting
a good example. Do we want our children to tell stories about how
comfortable we were sitting on our couch watching sitcoms, or do we want
to be remembered for the passion we had for life? Hopefully we can show
the future generations what it means to chase after our dreams. Most
importantly, in the words of Winston Churchill,
“Never Never Never give up
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